Monday, February 7, 2011

Blame. No!

Never blame a girl in ur life. good girls give happiness. bad girls give experience. worst girls give u a lesson and best girls give u memories.

ang pow tahun ni !

Sunday, February 6, 2011

Forgiving and forgetting can be difficult and isn’t always easy…

I recently came across this quote: “Men forget but never forgive. Women forgive but never forget.” Honestly, all those forgives and forgets in one sentence just confused me. Whichever way it may be, in every relationship we’re involved in, there’s bound to be the inevitable part of getting upset or angry with each other. But hey, even from a guy’s POV, I think sometimes we must get hurt in order to grow, we must fall in order to know.



Many relationships these days end with hate and revenge simply because one or the other couldn’t forgive and forget. But did you ever realize that in the olden days (yes, I am referring to our grandparents era!), no matter what happened, they forgave and forgot. Sure, it wasn’t easy, but they swallowed the truth and lived with it. Simply put, they played pretend and that—was how they managed to stay together “till death do us part”.





It’s equally difficult for both sexes to forgive and forget. The only difference is that some can keep it ALL inside and would probably never mention the past ever again. Others on the other hand, tend to explode with emotions and bring up the same issue over and over (probably until they part ways!). But really, for a relationship to work, we should learn from our past mistakes…just breathe and let it all go. Why not be the bigger person and learn how to forgive and forget?

Monday, August 23, 2010

i love you,man.

he's a short-fused guy.
he can explode at the slightest of spark.

he thinks he's brad pitt.
but deep inside he knows he's ugly.

he looks strong.
but the fact is his body has had one too many accidents.

he's a bit of a menace.
but he's only being cheeky.

he hates study.
but he's trying his ass of for her.

he never had a proper girlfriend before.
no wonder he sucks as a boyfriend.

he's extremely short on money.
he couldn't shower her with gifts.

he seems indifferent.
but he's actually very jealous and protective.

he was full of pride and ego.
but he tried to change for her.

he nags.
but he just want the best for her.

he never believe in love before her.
because he failed once. badly.

he sworn never to say those three sacred words.
and she said them to her.
for him, she deserves them.

he may smile at other girls.
but they will never get through his heart.

and he may smile at other boys.
but he's definitely not a gay.

he loves her.
more than his football obsession.
more than his his prized motorbike.
more than almost anything.

he might not be the perfect match for her.
he might not be better than those she had before.
but he'll give her his best that's for sure.

he doesn't know when,
why,
how,
or even when he loves her.
he doesn't need any reason to love her.

because his heart is set on her.
his instinct said its her.
his eyes can only see her beauty.
his head can't stop thinking of her.
he is and will always be hers.

because he loves her.
only her.

Sunday, July 18, 2010

rainy sunday.

You sent me a million indirects,
I caught you staring at me, we had some eye contact.
We laughed with our million inside jokes,
They laughed at us, we didn't notice.
People say that when we talk we create our very own bubble and the world around us disappears.
We both know there's something between us, something that neither of us can explain.
We know this is all true.
And then you tell me this is not meant to be,
I don't believe you, I just don't.
You just won't admit it. You just won't admit there's something. Something in life that wants us together.
But one day, you'll remember all these things and you'll look back and realize I'm the one,
And we are perfect for each other.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

sunny saturday!

No matter how far I travel from you,
just know I’m always here.
My heart is always with you,
don’t you worry, don’t you fear.

I love you, with everything,
with this big whole heart of mine,
and even though you miss me,
I’m sure you will be just fine ;);)

I sit here looking at old pictures,
and it reminds me of you,
times that we shared together,
the good and the blue.

I just love you so damn much,
and it’s hard to be away,
but no space in time,
can stop me loving you today